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Writing for a living is generally a poor way to make a living, especially if you live in regions where the craft itself is often under-appreciated.
So when USD 300 was credited into my account today for what would essentially qualify as a blog post, I can finally say that for the first time in almost a decade of writing for a living, I actually earned money from something I wanted to write.
But Stuart, you may ask, don’t you already write for a living? What’s the big deal?
Yes, it may be a paltry sum compared to what a full-time job gets you. But all the words I’ve sold—newspaper articles, ad copy, social media posts—were merely assignments handed down to me. I never had any choice in what to write.
This latest gig, in contrast, is the equivalent of someone giving me money just because they liked my blog post. It was a piece I had written out of pure desire and nothing else. So getting paid for it is the equivalent of being paid for fiction.
So what’s the point?
Until today, the most I’ve ever earned from an unsolicited blog post was USD 30 on Medium, and even then I felt like I was in the big leagues (especially since that’s the equivalent of a week’s worth of groceries for me as a Malaysian).
Which brings me to the point of this post—to remind all the budding writers out there to keep grinding away at their craft, even though it may seem like you’re not making progress.
It’s to remind you that just because none of the doors are opening doesn’t mean you can’t go ahead and try knocking on another one.
And along with that, I’d also like to add a few points extra points for the aspiring writer to keep in mind, and I think I’ll start that off by being a total killjoy.
Be a realist
As much as I think that I’ll never reach the upper echelons of writing solely because of my circumstances, I have to admit that the universe was also kind enough to nudge me towards writerdom.
For one, my parents had left books around the house, which I prompted me to start reading from a very young age. I also come from a lower middle-class family, which means that my struggles were few. I didn’t have many responsibilities when I quit my job to write a novel either, so that’s another plus.
Could you do the same thing and take a couple of years off work just so you could pursue your writing dreams? Sure you can. Should you do it, especially if you have a family to take care of? Maybe not.
Maybe you’ll have to take the slow-and-steady route and write during your lunch breaks instead. I personally know a mother of two who’d written an award-winning book by making the most out of her children’s nap time.
So don’t feel bummed out if you can’t drop everything and write full-time, or that finding the time to write would mean you getting up two hours earlier, because that just means you have your own path to forge.

Just gotta keep it real, ya know? Photo: Sinitta Leunen
You can’t think about the money, even if it is about the money
I’ve always dreamed to one day become an Allie Brosh, or a Mark Manson, to be able to profit from my creative fancies. Maybe that’s why I’ve chosen to try fiction.
The thing is though, once that becomes your goal, you’ll need to not think about the potential contracts you’d score, or how you’ll be living off your royalties by 2022.
The paradox of making a living off your writing (and not work writing) is that you can’t go into it wanting to profit right off the bat. Or ever, even.
So yes, keep your day job (and health insurance), be practical, then pursue your writing goals on the side.
And I say this as someone who’s quit his job to write a novel. Having learned what I needed to from that experience, I can safely say that I could’ve done the same thing even while holding down a day job.
Have faith
To be fair, I suck at having faith in myself. Every day I wake up doubting my writing dreams. Will I die without writing anything substantial? Am I just wasting my time? Do I have a different calling in life and just not know it?
I’ve written three more manuscripts ever since I got published, and two out of those have already been rejected. Maybe my luck has run out. Or maybe it was just a fluke. Either way, I find it hard to maintain the belief in myself that what I’m doing has a purpose, and if you feel it too, just know that it’s perfectly normal.
It won’t go away when you get your first byline, and it sure as hell won’t when you see your first book in print.
Still, if this is really your dream, the best thing you can do is to soldier on and keep putting in the work even when the odds seem stacked against you.
Don’t be afraid to dream
During my time as a hairdresser, I remember how I pined to see my name in a magazine one day. I never thought I’d ever be able to do exactly that—to enjoy cool life experiences, write about them, and see my name in print.
Then I dreamt about writing a book, which couldn’t have been a more impossible goal in my eyes. But then I reached that goal, and I ended up writing a few more. I dreamt of being published, and of being paid for unsolicited work.
Now I dream to be known as a sci-fi writer at least in my home country of Malaysia. Will I ever get there? I have no idea. But what I do know is that I reached all my previous goals because I had first dared to dream.
Be kind to yourself
I’ve taken to following people like David Goggins, Wes Watson, and Gary Vaynerchuk in recent years, and I’ve totally bought into the hustle culture, of pushing yourself to see where your limits lie.
But I’ve also spent thirty-five years of my life basically slacking and always finding the easy way out, so it’s natural for me to fall back to my old ways, and my journey to self-improvement can best be categorised as ‘two steps forward, one step back’.
When those moments hit—say I woke up late or drank one too many beers—I’ve found that the best thing to do is to forgive myself, because I’ve spilled the milk, and we all know there’s no use crying over that.
So if you find yourself not meeting your weekly word count yet again, or if you chose to rest instead of writing during your lunchtime, don’t beat yourself up over it.
The worst thing you could do is to ruminate, and the best is to just pick up where you’d left off.
Which brings us to the end of this post. If there’s anything you take away from this, it’s this: I’m probably one of the least-qualified people to be writing for a living today, and if I can make a decent amount of change on a blog post, then so can you.
Lovely post to to read Stuart. You always provide such heartfelt advice for writers about what to do or avoid. Just be passionate and real!! I need to get more of a structure/pattern going with my own blogging. Thanks for this 🙂
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Hey Stuart this comment of mine was actully meant for your most recent post14/02/23 Bloody hell, but hey mistakes happen 😅
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Lol but mistakes are the fun bit!
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It’s easy to do this too, because I’m simply sharing my experience instead of trying to conjure a ‘best things to do’ list.
Love your support, and what a wonderful comment to wake up to!
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Thank you for your post! A passion for writing is definitely essential for success as a writer, and once that is present and evident then success tends to come ‘when you are not looking.’
Keep it up!
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The ‘when you’re not looking’ bit definitely is true in my other parts of life. Hopefully my fiction career would someday see a windfall, but maybe I’m ‘still looking’ when it comes to that regard, lol. Thanks so much for your thoughts!
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And I am super thankful for your reblogs!
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Your so welcome!
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I love all the authenticity and encouragement in this! I feel a little less alone concerning my self doubting tendencies now! Thank u n keep writing, i can already tell you’re a great writer!
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And I’m loving the awesome comments you’re leaving here. Thanks for taking the time to leave another one, even though your previous one was already pretty amazing :)
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You’re welcome!
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“To be fair, I suck at having faith in myself. Every day I wake up doubting my writing dreams. Will I die without writing anything substantial? Am I just wasting my time? Do I have a different calling in life and just not know it?”
This hit me in the heart.
All writers have the same thoughts as they pursue their dreams. My grandma was my biggest cheerleader. Her picture sits next to my computer as I write my stories, as I send query letters to literary agents, and as I cling to hope. Her smiling face bleeds faith into my soul every time I look at it.
And sometimes, when I am alone, I’ll sing A Million Dreams by Pink at the top of my lungs. It always makes me feel better.
Tiff
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Heya Tiff! So glad you decided to stop by. And I’m so glad to read your comment. Maybe I too should get an anthem like you and sing it out loud (and perhaps scaring my dog in the process) when I’m particularly down.
Keep on keeping on indeed! Please do drop by again anytime.
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So many interesting ideas here. I agree that it’s important for us all to able to forgive ourselves and move on. You are doing so well. It’s important to be positive.
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What a lovely comment to wake up to. Love your encouraging voice and I really appreciate you stopping by!
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Wow, great post. It’s rare you find honesty paired with a great story and advice. Thank you for sharing this and I look forward to keeping up with your posts!
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I’m glad you see this as honesty because I do have a penchant for hyperbole :P
So glad to have you here, and thanks so much for stopping by!
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Well, I’m glad to hear that you’ve been able to make some money from blogging. I appreciate these tips, too! Great post. :)
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And I appreciate lovely comments like yours! Thanks so much for dropping these encouraging words, Sara. Do stop by again!
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I surely will. :) Thanks, Stuart.
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I think you’re a talented writer. Please, please, please keep writing.I loved this read!
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Aww thanks so much! That’s really a kind thing to say, and you definitely made my morning :)
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I found this article interesting. I’m a retired teacher and blogging is a new venture for me. Initially I read your blog because I lived in Malaysia in the 70’s and early 80’s and was excited to find a link with Malaysia but I learned heaps from this blog.
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Whoa, that’s pretty serendipitous, and Malaysia during that era must’ve been TREMENDOUSLY different. Where are you based now? I’m wishing you all the best with your new blogging venture, and I’m sure you’ll be killing it!
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Neatly done with so much heart. I admire the courage it took you to persist until your found success. I would think you created it which is amazing. Well done. Keep inspiring us.
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Thanks so much for your lovely comment! I still think my life is all about me stumbling from one thing to another, and this just happened to be something better that I managed to come across.
Anyway, thanks for stopping by! I appreciate it!
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Awesome. I love that part about stumbling and where it’s led you to. How’s the cyberpunk novel coming up? I’m just thinking aloud, maybe someday we can collab and create something meaningful and big enough to make some noise?
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Congratulations on making money with writing something you wanted to share… I never made any earnings with my blog posts, although every bit of help you’d be very welcome as I’m living on welfare. But unfortunately I think my knowledge of the English language isn’t good enough to write more meaningful articles/posts. I do keep writing and sharing as I love to do it. So if I *ever* earn anything with my posts, like you, I’d be over the moon because it would mean someone appreciates my train of thoughts… Have a fabulous day 🌹
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You definitely write well enough to be earning from it, judging from what I’ve read. It’s just a matter of finding your story.
I wish you all the best in your journey, and you’ll definitely find a way as long as you don’t stop, since you’re already writing for the right reasons (the love of writing and sharing). Thanks so much for stopping by!
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Thanks so much for reading some of my posts and your kind words about them. Yes, I love writing and sharing and (hopefully) raising awareness. So I am always very pleased when I reach someone with the bits I write/share.
I’ll keep on writing and maybe, some day, someone will “discover” me 😉
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Stuart, I enjoy your style. Like we are talking over coffee. Thanks for this. To use ads or not. Thoughts?
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I’m so glad to hear that, because a conversational tone is exactly what I’m going for!
I myself am not really an ads person, especially if it’s from an audience network of sorts, and if I ever insert ads into my site, it’ll be customised ones such as sponsored posts.
But I’m speaking from a point of not having to rely on blog revenue for a living, so it definitely won’t apply to everyone. Thanks so much for this wonderful question!
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I really appreciate this post. I been struggling back and forth if my writing was worth it (in terms of insecurity). I’m new to blogging and enjoy quite much. Your posts have been very inspiring for a new writer like me.
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Writing is always worth it if you enjoy doing the act itself (though to be fair, I don’t particularly enjoy it EVERY time I write, lol). Thanks so much for taking the time to comment. I appreciate you!
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It does sound amazing to earn real money for writing something you love. I’m still taking the “write on your lunch breaks” approach, so at this point it’s still a dream. Thanks for this post. Reading it fans the spark of hope I’m holding onto.
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Hey, we won’t know whether our actions will ever bear fruit, but what I do know is that NOT writing is the worst thing you can do.
So you doing the lunch-break thing is pretty gangster, and I’m wishing you all the best on your journey!
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Thank you! 😊
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Thank you, Stuart! This spoke volumes to me, and gave me permission to give myself grace, and to keep writing, even if no one sees it or I don’t make money from it. I know “it’s” coming, whatever that may be.
Deetra La’Rue
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Oh yeah. When ‘it’ comes, you’ll definitely know. Am rooting for you to keep doing what you’re doing in hopes that you find your ‘it’ soon. Thanks so much or dropping this comment!
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😊❤ Keep shining!
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Stuart, I wish you knew how much I needed to read this post today. THANK YOU❤️
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Aww, and I wish you knew how much I needed to read this comment! I appreciate all your kind words today. You really made my day!
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Congratulations! Keep going with it—I’m enjoying your blog!
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Thanks so much for this lovely comment and for stopping by. I appreciate it :)
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As a freelancer, I can relate to the idea of getting paid for what you love. Thank You for sharing.
Best wishes,
Pankti
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Aw yis. Get paid for words at work and I won’t bat an eye. Get USD 10 for something I wrote on a whim and I’m on cloud nine. Thanks so much for stopping by!
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Very inspiring story..
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Thank you for the kind words!
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You deserve the same mate..
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Very uplifting story. I hope you realize your dreams.
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Aww, thanks for the support. I hope you realise yours too!
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Cool post! We have to understand the balance between dreaming and reality. And sometimes we have to practical. But what’s great about writing is you never really have to give up the dream. The next post, poem, or book could be a hit. And it’s not like sports when you have to retire in your 30’s or 40’s. You can keep doing it for a long time. Keep striving!
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Oh yeah, that’s exactly what I think about the craft as well. I do some martial arts here and there, and have realised that there is an expiry date on being your best in martial arts, but there’s definitely not expiry date for the craft of writing. Great point you brought up there!
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Yeah, writing is something that you can keep improving at over time. That’s awesome: What kind of martial arts have you done?
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Humm congratulations! Where’d you earn from Im vary interested?
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Thanks for the well wishes! It’s basically a creative non-fiction piece that was featured in a book, also linked in the article.
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Thanks! Was it released on the wordpress site?
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I am doing bloggingsince year, and now i feel i know lots of things, practice makes man perfect, and now i have confidence that i can earn money too from blogging.
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Aw yis. It’s great that you feel this way. Wishing you all the best with your blogging journey!
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Thanks a lot !!
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I’m a pessimist, so I always expect nothing, so that even a little something is a treat. Congrats on your bank deposit! It must be very exciting when your dreams and reality meet. Despite my pessimism, I still believe in dreaming, because one never really knows what will happen. Keep up your good work!
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Yeah, I’m like that too. Like, I think this will be the last I’ll ever get paid for non-work words. But hey, it’s good to dream, right?
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You’re motivated and have your priorities straight. Keep on keeping on.
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Aww, I’m grateful that you think that way about me. Thanks so much for stopping by too. I appreciate it!
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Congrats!! That’s really exciting to make so much money on a post you actually wanted to write. I would love to get into freelance writing once I graduate college and have a little more spare time. But I will definitely be a realist and not expect too much, haha!
Miles of smiles,
Grace
gracefulrags.com
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I’m gonna be a hypocrite and say that you should definitely dream big. But if nothing happens, then we shall take it in stride. Wishing you all the best in your journey to becoming a freelance writer!
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Truly inspiring 🙌
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congratulations! here’s to many more $300 pay days!
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Aw yis. $300 fo’ lyf.
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Great job and fantastic advice! I hope you will continue to keep yourself motivated for future projects.
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Aww, thanks so much for the support. I sure hope so too, and I definitely have a bigger push now with your kind words.
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Thanks for sharing. Some good information to think about. I needed to hear this.
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Am grateful that it was useful! Sometimes I just wonder if I’m pulling stories out of my ass.
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I feel that way sometimes, too.
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What a wonderful piece! Though money is nice, writing for me has always been a passion. Like you, I think some are drawn to it :)
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Aw yeah, I feel like there’s no better reason to write other than this. Not for money, and definitely not for fame. Thanks for stopping by!
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Congratulations! Great advice. Optimistic yet realistic. Hope your manuscripts find a home with another publisher.
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Aww, thanks so much for the support. Here’s to hoping that my other manuscripts will someday find their homes!
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Congratulations on your success with your blog payment. Thank you for sharing your article.
Lauren
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Aww, thank YOU for stopping by to comment! It really makes my day to read supportive comments like this. Take care now!
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Congratulations for coming so far! Your words are in inspiration for aspiring writers! Hope you are able to achieve your dream, become a well known sci-fi writer not only in Malaysia but world wide.
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Aww thanks so much for your support! I truly appreciate it. Here’s to hoping!
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I am not exactly sure what it means regarding ‘lower middle-class family’ or if there is actually a chart or some form of detailed information about it, or the other classes as well.
One very strong thing that came to me in response to this…is The Book of Light and The Book of Dark…which I threw away years ago.
I basically bought two notebooks and named one as ‘The Book of Light’ and ‘The Book of Dark’…meaning one book contains all positive poems and one more…all negative.
It was when I was still a teenager. I gained inspiration from music and if I was sad…I would listen to the song that would amplify the emotion…and then I would blast it out into poetry.
I am remembering the concept…it was to write a book where every poem connects to each other like a story. It was an inspiration from Avantasia, a metal rock project or something.
I remember buying the first album called ‘Avantasia – The Metal Opera’ and…the whole album is actually a story. So if I wanted to know what happens next, I have to listen to the next song…and finally the end.
I forgot why I threw away the two books, but whoever and whatever I am right now…it is not ‘that’ from the past…which means if I were to create the same books…the content would be completely different.
Anyway, thanks for sharing!
Joker Wood
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Lol, I guess that basically means I didn’t need to starve, but also our family never did have any fancy things growing up.
There IS a chart for it, but it’s subjective and it belongs solely in my head, lol.
That’s an interesting concept you’ve shared there, and a great story of your past too. Appreciate your comments as always. Thanks for sharing!
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Congrats!
I always appreciate your honesty in these posts. The way you get real about romantic notions like quitting your day job to write a novel and yet still leave us on an inspiring note.
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Congrats Stuart! I am so happy for you. I am silent reader of your blog and I am not really surprised. More to come!! 😁
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Whoa, it humbles me to know that there are people like you reading and supporting me in silence. I appreciate your kind words. Thanks so much for stopping by!
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You deserves it!!
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Such a wonderful post. Stuart, love your message. You always speak from the heart and that’s what I love most about your writing.
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I’m so happy you would say that, because I often feel as though I actually speak from my butt instead, and there’s always the doubt niggling away at the back of my mind, then I read comments like yours and feel that perhaps I’m headed down the right path after all. Thanks so much for your encouraging comment!
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That’s true. We often feel unsure of ourselves and wonder about our own approval and other people’s opinions. I am going through that every day. LOL. I feel a connection with what you write and those thoughts are what I think about from time to time.
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Fantastic Stu (*clap clap*)! Thanks as always for sharing. And you have given me an idea of what to write for my blog tomorrow. Cos I too made a most surprising and unexpected windfall when a post I was once invited to write on last year earned me some greenback as well! It totally lifted my spirits and made me realise my writing might actually be good enough for someone from across the globe to pay me! Look out for my post on it ok? I’m pumped!!
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Whoa! Am definitely gonna look out for it. I’ve always believed you deserve to earn for your writing, so I hope this will be one of many more similar gigs to come! Thanks for stopping by as usual, Kelvin!
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First of all… I completely disagree. You are quite qualified to earn money on your blog posts!😊
Second, thank you. Thank you for both for your financial transparency as well as providing yet another delightfully inspiring piece.
I couldn’t keep going without more experienced writers like yourself admitting insecurities and adversities to the rest of us🌺
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That really makes my day that you would think that. I really appreciate it.
And thank YOU for stopping by and leaving this wonderful comment!
But yeah, we all have our struggles and insecurities, don’t we? I believe no one’s free from this, even those who have it made. Thanks so much for your thoughts!
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Ah yes. The slow and steady method. I believe I am getting quite good at that! :D
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I don’t know so much about steady, but I at least have the slow part down pat, lol. Thanks so much for stopping by!
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And a sense of humour!
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Such a killer opening paragraph. As an aspiring writer it goes straight to the heart. Fabulous advice, practical and crisp~~
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Aww, I truly appreciate your kind words, Laran. I hope that opening paragraph didn’t discourage you from writing, even though it can be that way sometime. Wishing you all the best with your writing journey!
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Just this morning, I was thinking about taking a ‘short break’ from blogging — one that equates to being VERY behind on my blog posting schedule. Now, I might just be rotating my thoughts.
I really agree with your thoughts on not just thinking, “I’m going to make money”. Actually, this is why most bloggers stop after a couple of months; “This blogging gig? Hard. I’m not making money anytime before my ninety-year-old neighbor becomes a K-pop star. And obviously, I don’t have the time or effort to wait so long!” And so they quit.
I love the messages in the post. Thank you for this post, Stuart!
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I hope I’d managed to keep you on the writing train, because that’s what really matters in the end, cliche or not. But yeah, it’s one of those pursuits where you can’t really feel the progress as you grind through it, much like losing weight or learning a new language. But there will be progress. All you have to do is not stop. Wishing you all the best!
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Thank you so much!! I appreciate your words and you have kept me on the writing train after all :)
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Congrats Stuart! I’ve done a couple blogs for websites but most are topics I’m less passionate about. It’s always a joy when it’s something close to home! Celebrate it :D
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Oh yea, it’s the best feeling when it’s your non-work writing that gets you the bacon. Am going to be forever thankful for this day. Anyway, thanks so much for sharing your thoughts!
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Well said. It is my dream to be able to earn something from my writing, but I refuse to monetize my blog. Why? Out of the fear that I would be once more spending money without seeing any in return. is what I do worthy of a donation? Are my word bleeds worthy of being paid? While obviously as long as I don’t monetize it, I’m doing it out of the sheer love of writing.. of which there is no doubt, at least for me. It would help me if it did bring in even a few dollars. As long as there are no donation or pay options, I can dream and believe my writings worthy at least in my own mind. Congratulations on proving to yourself though that yours are indeed worthy. And the manuscripts, may have just been sent to the wrong place or at the wrong time. Research Steven King or Dr. Seuss.
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Oh yeah, you’ve just described the writing journey so perfectly. It is indeed filled with constant doubt, wondering if you’re ever good enough, even if you’ve earned a few bucks along the way.
We’re in this together, and I’m sending you all the good vibes for your writing journey.
Thanks so much for dropping this wonderful comment, by the way!
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